I was asked by a male supervisor to join him (be his co-therapist) when he did marriage counseling with a couple he had been seeing together for a year.
When most people think about "measuring" a relationship they tend to think only in terms of a scale of "Good" to "Bad." Dr. Nyblade discusses how to look at a relationship on two dimensions: 1) Positive to Negative and 2) Close to Distant. Looking at a relationship along 2 dimensions you can view a relationship in a quadrant which provides a better overall view of the relationship.
When separating, usually both party's feelings are not equal. One may want reconciliation and the other separation. The separation may be between a married couple of 25 years with property and legal issues to resolve another may be between college roommates. In any case the goal of separation should be to make the relationship more positive. Dr. Nyblade provides pointers on how to separate and make the relationship more positive.
Finding the right therapist calls for work and thought and it is more likely that you'll find what you're looking for from recommendations from trusted friends, family, and professionals like your doctor. Once the recommendations have been collected, Dr. Nyblade discusses how to interview and review your therapist to get the right fit.
A Pre-counseling workbook on when and how to select a counselor. A guide to questions about the process of counseling, the content of counseling, and some of the logistics of counseling by Elizabeth Nyblade, Ph.D.
Look for my book "Stop the Verbal Abuse"
How to End the Verbal Abuse that Controls You, by Elizabeth Nyblade, Ph.D. SpiritARROW Press, 2016
Look for my book "Stop the Verbal Abuse"
How to End the Verbal Abuse that Controls You, by Elizabeth Nyblade, Ph.D. SpiritARROW Press, 2016